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What is Love ? Baby don't hurt me

Love has always been a problem and an existencial question for me. Everybody talk about love, movies and tv-shows always show you love stories, friends always tell me “I think i'm in love”. However, I feel like i don’t understand this feeling like others. I mean, they seem so happy, so excited, like they have won 3 millions at the lotery last night. When she is in love, my best friend acts a little like the woman on this gif and she makes words with random letters like she had invented a new language. Do you do that too ? I don’t think I do. But it’s very funny to see. A part of me is a little jealous. This euphoriant drug seems amazing. In my part, i feel some kind of excitment at the start of a new relationship but... It never lasts very long. And that’s a real problem because my partners all ended to feel not loved enough : “You don’t like my cuddles. You don’t want to have sex with me etc...”. I don’t blame them, but I can’t blame myself either for being me. It’s hard for me, b...

Why Bojack Horseman is the best TV-show.

  I have to warn you first, i’m a fangirl. Many friends told me they didn’t like Bojack Horseman and dropped it. I answered “to each his own”, but inside I think “oh my god this guy sucks so hard ! Is he really my friend ?! ” . * Laughing *  I understand that BJH is a really dark and cynical TV show and not everybody can like that type of humour. But I never found a TV show so human (and with human-animals ). Emotions, experiences are so real and relevant to me that I wondered how Raphael Bob- Waksberg could write all this. After the first season, I told myself, “ if I met him in real life, we probably understood each other so much that I could fall in love with him”. That’s the first time I reacted like that after watching a TV- show . It was like someone had understood all my deepest and darkest feelings : “Really, I ’m not the only one to feel this way ? ”. When I started to watch BJH I was in a moment in my life very tough and dark. I think it’s pro...

Have you found your calling ? Maybe you don’t have only one.

Recently I'm spending time on Ted Talks/ideas, some topics highly call me because of my experiences, things I lived... I really feel the need to share it and talk about it. Some of these are about finding our calling, our professional vocation. Dave Isay says,  “People who’ve found their calling have a fire about them”. Ask you this question, when you go to work every morning, do you feel that fire ? I imagine most people will answer, “Of course I don’t”. Don’t you think that you deserve better ? Why not ? For a better understanding of my post, I suggest you this 3 articles/videos : 7 lessons about finding the work you were meant to How to find work you love Why some of us don’t have one true calling This last five years, I saw in my circle of friends or family, more and more students or young adults totally lost, unable to find their own path. They give up studies they started, they change 2 or 3 times the studies they have started, they change after almost 2 years of experiences ...